Sunday, March 12, 2017

My turn-The big 5-0!

So a few weeks ago, I posted for my BFF's 50th. Now it's my turn.  Today's the day.  In honor of this momentous occasion, Kent surprised me Friday with a dinner out at Macayos with all my siblings and their spouses as well as my two sons who are still at home.  It was a wonderful, fun evening.  Bryce and Becky brought me a giant chocolate chip cookie in the shape of a 50, (which has already been devoured.....I shared with my family, and I am trying to convince myself that they ate more than I think they probably did.....I think I actually consumed most of it......it was delicious.) And Rex and Kim brought me a "Candy Violet" bouquet.  (For an explanation of this one, see #8 on my last post.....Paige, the "mommy" of "Candy Violet II" is Rex and Kim's daughter.)  Kent had asked my mom to write a poem about the first 50 years of my life.  (Wow, that is kind of hard to type.  How can I be 50?!) And he had each of my siblings share memories about me.   We then all went to see the movie Hidden Figures, which did not disappoint.  What a fun way to celebrate! For this post, I will share the poem, written by my talented mother in honor of my 50th:

Long, long ago on Sunday,
Church was about to start. 
Ann and Mike got in the car,
Ready to depart.

However, we weren't going
To the chapel this March day,
We were off to have a baby!
'Twas a girl! We named her KAY!

We waited and we waited
For this baby to debut.
Mike tried to keep Ann comfortable
'Tho this proved hard to do

We waited, and we waited.
Finally, Ann was whisked away.
Mike waited - in the "Fathers' Room,"
Where he was told to stay.

It was a moment filled with joy
When Ann heard that first cry.
And when Mike finally saw her--
Well-- no adjectives apply!

It was Nineteen-sixty-seven,
March 12th, in the night
Yes! That's the special moment
We recall with such delight. 

Our lives were changed forever.
We were never quite the same. 
Now where have all the years gone
Since this mighty rearrange?

Now it's Twenty-seventeen,
And fifty years have passed.
How could little baby Kay
Have grown up so fast?

She started life in Salt Lake
But that place was not her fate.
Her Daddy felt that Logandale
Was where they should locate.

So for the first years of her life
She lived both there and here.
Stayed in her Grandma Hardy's house
Just like a pioneer.

Her Hardy cousins loved her
This precious little tot
They'd come to hold and tend her,
And play with her a lot.

Between here and Salt Lake City
She was shuttled to and fro.
But she always knew we loved her
No matter where we'd go.

When Kindergarten beckoned,
Logandale became her home,
And from that moment until this
She hasn't cared to roam.

She had to ride the "scary" bus
To school, yes-every day.
Big Indian high school students
Almost frightened her away!

She made good friends.  She played with dolls,
She learned to read and spell.
Most everything she tried to do,
She did it very well.

By now she had two brothers.
Bryce and Rex by name
And not too long thereafter,
Another sibling came.

This was most exciting!
Oh my, what a thrill!
She now had her own living doll.
Baby sister, Jill!

She and best friend, Corinne
Cared for Jill's every need.
Impatiently, they tried in vain
To teach her how to read.

Somehow Jill survived this.
In her own good-natured way.
And now these two are best of friends.
Sisters-Jill and Kay.

When Clark and David came along
The family was complete.
The house was suddenly too full;
We moved across the street.

Kay took dance and piano too,
Her talents to improve.
But she somehow broke her right arm
In a tricky tumbling move.

Yet she continued to do well
Throughout her years at school
Student Council and good grades.
She was nobody's fool!

Most fun of all was cheering
For the good old "Gold and Blue." 
But traveling to far off games
Caused Mike to fret and stew.

Valedictorian she was named.
For Graduation day.
We could not have been more proud
Of our smart daughter, Kay.

And then before we knew it,
This, our little girl,
Was headed off to Provo,
To give BYU a whirl.

And then, oh my! My goodness!
A wonderful event!
She married Kent, her sweetheart.
This match was heaven-sent.

They settled down in Logandale,
Which is the perfect spot.
They've had six perfect children
That they've loved and raised and taught.

Kay still is just amazing,
Gets up every day to run! 
She also keeps her house clean.
And she's kind to everyone.

She serves well in Church callings
And she's teaching first grade now.
Whatever she is asked to do,
She does her best somehow.

So if Kay's turning 50,
It must make perfect sense
With everything that she has done
There's proof! --There's evidence

That even though she's 50,
She is good for 50 more.
So Kay, just keep on going
Cause no one's keeping score.

My "50" chocolate chip cookie and my "Candy Violet" bouquet (made of both candy and violets :)
THEN
NOW
THEN
NOW (our family has grown a little in 50 years :)

Saturday, February 18, 2017

Can I do it? The big 5-0

Back in 2012, when I started this blog, I said it was inspired by my BFF of 40+ years, and that at some point, I'd write a post about her or our shared "adventures."  She turns 50 today!  Happy B-day Corinne! And so in honor of this, her 50th.  Here are 50 things about Corinne and/or our shared adventures.  (I'm hoping I can make it to 50, but yesterday as I was driving, I started to think of some, and I'm pretty confident that I can come up with DOUBLE that....so here's to us living to be 100.....I'll post the 2nd installment then :)

1- Weight: With all that talk of 50 and 100, I remember us being excited when we each weighed close to 50 pounds and could get on the scale TOGETHER and make it hit 100!  (I don't really want to DOUBLE my weight these days, but it was fun at the time.)

2-Playgroup:  Our mom's organized this as a "pre-school" of sorts prior to our starting kindergarten.  Our playgroup consisted of pretty much all the girls our age in Logandale at the time: Corinne, Laurel McMurray, RaNae Reese, and me.  We got together and played twice a week.

3-Playgroup treats:  When we played at my house, the treat was always graham cracker/frosting sandwiches.
RaNae, Corinne, Kay, Laurel, and Bryce....Playgroup treats.....making our own graham cracker and frosting sandwich cookies

4-Playgroup rides home: The mom who hosted gave the girls in the group a ride home after playgroup.  We'd roll down the windows and flap our arms out the windows and sing (actually shout) "Nanny, nanny, nanny goat; you can't catch the billy goat."  Not sure where this came from, or why we found it fun.....it's actually rather strange.  And yes, these were the days before seatbelts.

5-Kindergarten rest time:  We had to lie "head to toe" to discourage whispering and talking during rest time.  Corinne and I always tried to find someone to lie between us so our heads would be facing the same direction and we could whisper and talk.

6-Hot Lava: Jumping from gold velour sofa to gold velour sofa in our "oh-so-fashionable" 70's living room to avoid the "hot lava" (aka avocado green shag carpeting.)

7-Sunshine family: See last post

8-Candy Violet: We both got dolls for Christmas when we were in kindergarten, and we both loved the names Candy and Violet, but we both liked the name Candy just a BIT better than Violet, so in order to be "fair" ("fairness" was a huge deal to us), we named BOTH our dolls Candy Violet.  (We were so disappointed when my little sister was born the summer after our Kindergarten year and my mom named her Jill instead of Candy Violet......but my 5 year old niece did name her new Christmas doll this year Candy Violet-at the suggestion of her dad, my brother- so the name lives on.)
Kay with Candy Violet  the first Christmas 1972

Paige with Candy Violet the second 2017


9-Teaching our Candy Violets to "fly":  This involved standing on the back of the two big Lazy Boy chairs in Corinne's living room and throwing our Candy Violets to the seats of the chairs and then demonstrating how flying was REALLY done by our jumping as far as we could from the backs of the chairs onto the floor in front of the chairs.  (I know....we were a bit strange.)
My Candy Violet today (2017) She may be a little worse for the wear, but she was well-loved and played with.



10-Gum Collection:  In Corinne's old house, she had a chewed gum collection on the trim of the door into her hallway.  (I can't believe her mom let her have that, but it was an old house, and they were building a new one.)  I always wanted to chew gum at her house so I could add to the collection.

11-Baby Chrissy Dolls: See last post

12-Teddie Holden and Tammy Collins:  We grew up in the 70's; in the days of variety shows like the  Donny & Marie Show and  the Sonny & Cher show, so we invented our own movie-stars/variety show stars and spent hours drawing pictures of them in a variety of sketches and situations for their shows.  I had a whole folder full of Tammy Collins drawings, and Corinne's Teddie Holden portfolio was just as impressive. 

13-Sleepovers: Lots of these
Sleepover in our camper: Top: Corinne, Kay. Bottom: Bryce, Rex, Henry Whitmore


14-Pet cemetery:  This was located on the side of Corinne's hill.  It seemed that we had lots of cats that died and were buried there.  We spent a lot of time beautifying the pet cemetery, making headstones out of brick pavers, and picking wild flowers to put on the  graves.

15-Yearly jaunts into the desert to pick desert holly and mistletoe for Christmas décor.

16-Birthdays:  Our birthday parties were always epic; and I was always a bit jealous that Corinne's birthday was 3 weeks before mine.....so "unfair" that she was "older." (Ironically, I don't feel that way anymore ;)

17-Doll Birthday parties: And speaking of birthdays, we planned and held some epic birthday parties for our dolls.  We'd spend weeks making presents, invitations, and refreshments and then gather all our dolls to play games etc. 

18-Summer Carnivals: These were held in our family room and again involved hours of us planning and setting up booths with games like ring tosses, bean bag tosses, and even a fish pond.  We also spent hours making the prizes for said games:  awesome things like painted rocks and mini hand-drawn pictures.  Tickets were 1 penny each, and the neighbors from "miles around" came to our "famous Hardy house carnival."  (At least that's how it seemed to us.)
We used all our proceeds from the carnival one year to buy paint to paint this old abandoned shed, which we planned to convert to a cool fort......I think the painting of it was the most time we spent in it.....it's almost always more fun MAKING the fort than actually PLAYING in it when done.  Left to right: Bryce, Corinne, Kay

19-Going with each other on family trips: Disneyland, FishLake, etc.

20-Halloween Costumes, yearly school Halloween Carnival held in the old gym, and trick-or-treating together:  Many times we had matching costumes, always homemade by our mothers.  (See Raggedy Ann Costume in last post.)
Matching "baby" costumes.....even down to the booties, conveniently styled to go OVER our shoes :)

21-Getting off the bus at each other's house and playing together daily

22-Calling each other daily.....still know her number (7-2458.....this was before the 398 prefix even existed....this was all I had to dial: five numbers)

23-Making houses and playing "old ladies" in her basement.

24-Making houses and playing in the trees behind her backyard fence.

25-Dressing up:  It didn't matter in what-her dad's clothes or my mom's old prom dresses.  We loved to dress up.
Kay, Corinne, and Trina dressed in my mom's old prom dresses.....quite the models....I'm surprised 17 magazine wasn't beating down our doors.

26-Bike rides:  I learned to ride a bike in her yard.  Sometimes we'd go on bike rides to pick asparagus that grew wild along the open ditch banks of Wells road.

27-Playing together at recess, and being so excited when we FINALLY got in the same classroom for 3rd and 6th grades.  (There were only two teachers for each grade, and somehow, we always ended up in different classes.....now as a teacher, I'm wondering if that was somehow orchestrated ;)

28-Swimming in the Reservoir behind her house.

29-Daily 2-hour swims at the Logandale pool EVERY day in the summer.

30-Riding the bus to school together daily:  As I remember, there was ONE bus for the entire valley that started at the Indian Reservation and made its way to Overton.  It transported all students grades K-12.  I got on at the Old Logandale School, and always tried to find Corinne and her big sister Camille to sit with them.  (It was a little intimidating as a young elementary student to be on the bus with all those big kids.)

31-Cheerleading:  We were cheerleaders together all 4 years of high school, cheering for football and basketball, including a state championship football game our senior year!

MVHS Varsity Cheerleaders 1984-85: Jeri Thomas, Cobi Whitney, Patrice Pulsipher, Corinne Adams, Tiffany Simmons, Kay Hardy.


Marty Taggart holds the 1984 State AA football trophy



32-Climbing onto the roof of the school to hang signs:  (Cheerleaders were responsible for school spirit signs.....I can't believe that we climbed onto the roof and leaned over the side to tape the signs to the side of the school building-not too safe.....one time we dropped our tape; Corinne asked Kent Barlow-a "scary boy" two years older than us to throw it up to us....When he bent over to pick up the tape, she spit on him!  And when we came down, he put her in a dumpster.  This was all done in fun, but I thought she was so brave to interact with an older boy, who was so cool.....and......I later married this "scary boy.")

33-Raising the flag at football games as JV cheerleaders:  This was always a little unnerving; we were always worried about the rope pulley working properly, the flag being right-side up, and getting the flag up in a timely manner (before the band finished the star spangled banner.)

34- Studying for tests together: Algebra, Biology, Chemistry

35-Double dates in high school:  Senior prom when we ate dinner at Tivoli Gardens at the Liberace Museum in Vegas since we had choir festival the same day as Prom and our group were all members of the choir.
Sad that I don't have any pics with our whole group:  Kay with her senior prom date, Rob Cooper

36-Being homesick together Freshman year at BYU.
Kay: First day of school at BYU: Fall 1985

Corinne: First day of school at BYU: Fall 1985....It was our first time to have backpacks....Corinne accidentally wore hers like a purse all day......she figured out how to wear it properly by day two.


37-BYU Freshman year Halloween Costumes and cookies.


38- Other BYU Freshman year adventures:  Burnt roast (our first attempt to cook Sunday dinner), Pink hair (an unsuccessful attempt at home hair color), BYU football games every Saturday, attending General Conference, night biology class with Moapa Valley friends Melissa Robison and Mendis Cooper. (This should probably be 4-5 separate items.....I told you I had a lot :)

Heritage Halls Young Hall kitchen with our burnt roast and pink hair


39-Rooming with Becca, Jenn, and Tina at BYU:  The Steve Lindsey drama and Tina's "Snookums."
Tina (left and "Snookums"-the well-loved teddy Bear) and Becca (right)

40-Adopt-a-Grandparent weekly visits to the nursing home while at BYU.

41-Grocery shopping at Albertsons in Provo on Saturdays for all the free samples (especially the broken chocolate chip cookies.)

42-Hosting Corinne's bridal shower/ serving as a bridesmaid at Corinne's wedding.
Bridesmaids at Corinne's wedding: Shona, Dianna, Rebekah, Kay, Camille, and bride Corinne: Gotta love the big 80s hair!  the bigger the better :)

43-Double dates with Matt and Corinne while Kent and I were dating.....and plotting as to how to get Kent to ask me out/be interested in the first place......it was helpful that Matt was a member of and coached the intermural basketball team that Kent played on.

44-Corinne was a bridesmaid at my wedding.
Bridesmaids at my wedding: Standing back: Corinne, Jill.  Sitting left: Jamie, Tracy. Sitting right: Carolyn, Lynne. Center: Bride Kay

45-Being pregnant with our first children together:  Austrie was born 6 days before Dallin, which was very UNFAIR since she was due about 3 weeks after Dallin.  (She was a preemie.)

46-Having my daughters take Creative Dance and Clogging from Corinne.

Kaylee and Lynae ready for Creative Dance Recital

47-3 generations of friends: Our dad's were the same age and grew up and went to school in MV together.  Corinne and I are the same age and grew up and went to school in MV together.  And our daughters, Kaylee and Mady, are the same age and grew up and went to school in MV together.

48- Having our daughters Kaylee and Mady room together at BYU.....and even live in the same dorm that Corinne and I lived in as Freshmen.
Kaylee and Mady-BYU football game, freshman year, fall 2012


49-Building homes in Logandale about a mile apart from each other.

50-I could go on: high school plays, FHA conventions, dance Saturdays in Vegas....and on and on, but I'll end with this for #50: BFFs for almost half a century!  Here's to the 2nd half.  Happy 50th to us (me in three weeks :)




Sunday, January 22, 2017

Flower Child

This morning as I was lying in bed contemplating whether I should get up now or later. (It's one of those rare days off work.)  I started to think about growing up in the 70's.  I started kindergarten in the fall of 1972 and started middle school in the fall of 1979, so my elementary school years were all during the 70's. Although I've kept a journal for years, I don't know that I've ever commented on some of the things that were just a part of my life.  So here's to being a child of the 70's and some of the things that were a part of my life:

1-The Sunshine family: A Barbie-doll style "Hippie" family consisting of a mom and dad and baby as well as a grandma and grandpa.  This family drove a truck with a  camper attachment, had a small, conservative home (nothing like the Barbie dream house), wore long dresses, and made pottery.  And they were "cute" (not "sexy" like Barbie).  My BFF and I spent HOURS playing Sunshine family and owned every accessory that was sold.  We always played at Corinne's house since she had no younger siblings (I had 5) to mess up the set up of the Sunshine family "compound" which usually covered her entire large living room, and the components of which required several very large boxes to store.  (I remember my mom driving me to Corinne's with the entire back seat of the family car, stacked to the roof with Sunshine family storage boxes.)
My personal Sunshine family which now sits on a shelf in a shadow box in my office.  (I had an "extra" baby: twins are so much more fun :)

See how awesome their Van/camper was?  They sold pottery and leather products out of it. 

2-Peace:
The peace sign, made by holding up two fingers, was an integral part of my 70's childhood.  Although I really don't think I had any idea about the political or ideological meaning of this symbol and its ties to the Viet Nam War protests and hippie movement,  I did use this sign and proclaim "peace" on a regular basis.
Instead of waving good-bye after our almost-daily play-dates,  Corinne and I always made this sign with our fingers and screamed, "PEACE" as we departed each other's company until the leaving friend was out of sight. 
I can still picture Corinne standing in the big window of her living room, making the "PEACE" sign, and screaming "PEACE" while my mom drove down her hill after picking me up from her house, while I returned the sign and screamed back "PEACE!" 
My mom noted that our "PEACE-full" childhood farewells to each other were, ironically, anything BUT peaceful. ;)

Raggedy Ann and Andy:  Raggedy Ann and Andy were popular during the 70's.  Corinne and I both dressed as Raggedy Ann (complete with yarn wigs sewn by our mothers using a pair of panty hose with the legs cut off as the skull-cap base for the wigs) for Halloween in kindergarten and 1st grade. We spent hours drawing pictures of Raggedy Ann and Andy, and had Raggedy Ann and Andy Room décor, dolls, and even cookie cutters.  (I loved eating Corinne's mom's Raggedy Ann and Andy cut out sugar cookies, made from her Grandma Gublers sugar cookie recipe.) And I think Corinne even had a Raggedy Ann and Andy metal lunch box, and we both had Raggedy Ann themed birthday parties.

Kay-Halloween 1973 (Raggedy Ann doll made by Grandma Monson) 
Also check out the gold velour couch and green shag carpeting, and FYI, we also had avocado green velour wallpaper with silver shiny designs adorning a wall in this house. 

We made these plates in school every year.  My picture of choice in 1973 -1st grade?
Raggedy Ann (in a tree house) of course :)

These plaques adorned my bedroom wall during my childhood and still hang on the entry wall into Luke's (my baby's) room.  They were hung when he was small, and I'm not sure he realizes they are still there.....he's almost15 now.  Shhh don't tell ;)

I had (and still have these dolls)
70's Raggedy Ann and Andy Cookie cutters-my mom still has these.

Blowing out 6 candles on my Raggedy Ann cake




Long dresses: Yep the 70's were the era of long dresses.  Check out the matching long dresses Corinne and I got for Christmas 1973.  ( I think these may have been made by my Grandma Monson.)


Baby Chrissy Dolls:  Corinne and I both got "Baby Chrissy Dolls" for Christmas 1973. (See the picture above.)  These dolls were awesome because 1-They were the same size as actual babies (they could wear real baby clothes) and 2-they had hair that could "grow" via a hole in the top of their heads.  (This hair could be pulled back in -via the string attached to the doll's back-  for a short hairdo.)


I could add more: gauchos, bandanas, the "shag" hairstyle, playing jacks at recess, Chinese jumpropes, crocheted ponchos, and week day primary, but this post is long enough. So here's my shout out to the 70's and my wonderful childhood.