My own children have varied in what they wanted as far as "Opening Ceremonies." Dallin was on a back-east church history trip with LDS youth from our stake when his call arrived. I knew it might be arriving while he was gone, and purposely avoided picking up the mail. (I was trying to wait until he got home, so he could check the mail and get the call himself.) However, he relentlessly called and asked me to check, check, check. When it finally came, I texted him a picture of the large white envelope and told him it would be waiting for him to open when he arrived home. He didn't want to wait. Instead, he invited all his friends into his hotel room, put everyone on speakerphone (Yep, 2009 was pre-facetime) and had us open and read his call to him.....Kent opened it and read, "You are hereby called to serve as a missionary of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. You are assigned to labor in the Chile Santiago West Mission." Amidst cheers from his friends coming through the phone, we heard Dallin's famous first words in response to the news, "Will that be English speaking or Spanish speaking?" It was Spanish :) My blue-eyed, blond boy spent 24 months in Chile, speaking Spanish, preaching the gospel, and keeping the mission finances in order. (He served for 8 months as the financial secretary for the mission.)
Dallin-Baptism in Chile! |
Kaylee's call arrived the day after Christmas 2013. Our family was in Disneyland (taking advantage of the last time we would all be together for quite a while, since we anticipated Kaylee and Lynae serving over-lapping missions.) Grannie Annie had been given the task of checking the mail daily just in case the call came. While in line for Space Mountain, I got a text from Annie Leavitt at the Logandale Post Office saying that Kaylee's call had arrived. Kaylee quickly called Grannie, and sent her to retrieve the big white envelope. Grannie sent us pictures showing the envelope in her possession awaiting our arrival home. We got home from Disneyland late on the evening of December 27th. Kaylee immediately left to go pick up the call from Grannie. Kent and I got ready for bed; and lay there wondering if she had the call yet, if she would open it, and when she'd be home. (It seemed like she was gone a long time.) She had told us that she didn't want a big "to-do" with her call, but just wanted to open it alone. We finally heard the Suburban pull up, and heard her come in. She walked down the hall and opened our bedroom door. Through the darkness, we heard her voice ask, "So do you want to know where I'm going?" Kaylee had been called to serve in the Mexico, Aguascaliente Mission! Having snuck into Grannie's house while Grannie slept, Kaylee found the envelope. She reported that she left Grannie's and drove around for a while, not quite knowing where or when to open it. She said it seemed weird to just open it alone in the Suburban, but she also thought it would be weird to come home and then just go down into her bedroom to open it. She then decided that she would go to the cemetery and open the call and read it to Grandpa Mike (my dad). Grandpa Mike had passed away on November 1st, and his headstone had just been placed on Christmas Eve. So she sat on the little bench facing his headstone, and told him, "Well, Grandpa, you get to be the first to hear where I am going." She then opened her call, and using a little flashlight that she had, read the call out loud "to Grandpa." Kaylee is now serving in Mexico. She is speaking Spanish, learning to wash clothes by hand and survive without reliable running water and/or power. She is also teaching the gospel, learning to love the people and loving and experiencing those things which can only be experienced on a mission.
Kaylee-Celebration for Mexican Independence Day. Kaylee writes, "There's no discrimination here in Mexico....white girl gets the tiny sombrero." |
Lynae's call arrived this last Thursday. I got a text from her in Provo at BYU where she is going to school saying, "My call is here!!! I am FREAKING OUT!!!" I was not sure if she would open it or not. She had said she did not want an "opening ceremony" since she just felt it too "cliché" at BYU. She is planning to come home this next weekend for Moapa Valley High School homecoming, and had talked about waiting and bringing it home to open it here; but apparently she couldn't wait, because later that day, I got a text from Kent, saying "Call Lynae. She has some news she wants to share." She had opened her call privately, but wanted Kent and me to be the first to know. Since I was not with Kent at the time, she told us via phone separately. Lynae has been called to serve in the Rochester, NY mission to include, along with her duties to share the gospel, service in the Hill Cumorah Visitor's Center! She cried as she read her call, and prefaced the news to us by saying, "This is just the most PERFECT missionary call for me! My cheeks hurt because I just can't stop smiling about it." (Lynae LOVES the Book of Mormon. It is the basis of her testimony. She read the entire book before her baptism at age 8; and continues to read it often. In 2012, she and I gave ourselves the "12 in 12" challenge, and read the Book of Mormon each month during 2012....12 times that year. (See this post.) She is sooo excited to get to serve EXACTLY where that sacred record was deposited by Moroni and then retrieved by Joseph Smith and to tell that story and bear testimony of it over and over on a daily basis.) Lynae asked us not to tell yet because her BYU friends had talked her into a "mock re-opening ceremony" later that night, where they could all gather together to hear the news. It was sooo hard to sit by my mom, father-in-law, and two brothers that evening during Trent's football game and say nothing!! Later, when I saw things "surfacing" on facebook, I realized that the "re-opening" had taken place, and I texted Lynae for permission to "tell." She said she would call her grandparents, and then the news was "free game," so I have been texting and telling the news nonstop since then. Congratulations Lynae!