Saturday, October 11, 2014

Opening Ceremonies

3 of my 6 children have received mission calls.  The most recent was Lynae, just 3 days ago.  Opening missionary calls has, in recent years, become somewhat of an "event."  Many prospective missionaries film their "openings," and/or invite friends and family to attend the "opening ceremony."  However, my husband remembers picking up his call at the post office, opening and reading it right there, and the post mistress being the first to hear his news. 

My own children have varied in what they wanted as far as "Opening Ceremonies."  Dallin was on a back-east church history trip with LDS youth from our stake when his call arrived.  I knew it might be arriving while he was gone, and purposely avoided picking up the mail.  (I was trying to wait until he got home, so he could check the mail and get the call himself.)  However, he relentlessly called and asked me to check, check, check.  When it finally came, I texted him a picture of the large white envelope and told him it would be waiting for him to open when he arrived home.  He didn't want to wait.  Instead, he invited all his friends into his hotel room, put everyone on speakerphone (Yep, 2009 was pre-facetime) and had us open and read his call to him.....Kent opened it and read, "You are hereby called to serve as a missionary of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.  You are assigned to labor in the Chile Santiago West Mission."  Amidst cheers from his friends coming through the phone, we heard Dallin's famous first words in response to the news, "Will that be English speaking or Spanish speaking?"  It was Spanish :)  My blue-eyed, blond boy spent 24 months in Chile, speaking Spanish, preaching the gospel, and keeping the mission finances in order.  (He served for 8 months as the financial secretary for the mission.)
Dallin-Baptism in Chile!

Kaylee's call arrived the day after Christmas 2013.  Our family was in Disneyland (taking advantage of the last time we would all be together for quite a while, since we anticipated Kaylee and Lynae serving over-lapping missions.)  Grannie Annie had been given the task of checking the mail daily just in case the call came.  While in line for Space Mountain, I got a text from Annie Leavitt at the Logandale Post Office saying that Kaylee's call had arrived.  Kaylee quickly called Grannie, and sent her to retrieve the big white envelope.  Grannie sent us pictures showing the envelope in her possession awaiting our arrival home.  We got home from Disneyland late on the evening of December 27th.  Kaylee immediately left to go pick up the call from Grannie.  Kent and I got ready for bed; and lay there wondering if she had the call yet, if she would open it, and when she'd be home.  (It seemed like she was gone a long time.)  She had told us that she didn't want a big "to-do" with her call, but just wanted to open it alone.  We finally heard the Suburban pull up, and heard her come in.  She walked down the hall and opened our bedroom door.  Through the darkness, we heard her voice ask, "So do you want to know where I'm going?"  Kaylee had been called to serve in the Mexico, Aguascaliente Mission!  Having snuck into Grannie's house while Grannie slept,  Kaylee found the envelope.  She reported that she left Grannie's and drove around for a while, not quite knowing where or when to open it.  She said it seemed weird to just open it alone in the Suburban, but she also thought it would be weird to come home and then just go down into her bedroom to open it.  She then decided that she would go to the cemetery and open the call and read it to Grandpa Mike (my dad).  Grandpa Mike had passed away on November 1st, and his headstone had just been placed on Christmas Eve.   So she sat on the little bench facing his headstone, and told him, "Well, Grandpa, you get to be the first to hear where I am going."  She then opened her call, and using a little flashlight that she had, read the call out loud "to Grandpa."  Kaylee is now serving in Mexico. She is speaking Spanish, learning to wash clothes by hand and survive without reliable running water and/or power.  She is also teaching the gospel, learning to love the people and loving and experiencing those things which can only be experienced on a mission.
Kaylee-Celebration for Mexican Independence Day.  Kaylee writes,
"There's no discrimination here in Mexico....white girl gets the tiny sombrero."


Lynae's call arrived this last Thursday.  I got a text from her in Provo at BYU where she is going to school saying, "My call is here!!! I am FREAKING OUT!!!"  I was not sure if she would open it or not.  She had said she did not want an "opening ceremony"  since she just felt it too "cliché" at BYU.  She is planning to come home this next weekend for Moapa Valley High School homecoming, and had talked about waiting and bringing it home to open it here; but apparently she couldn't wait, because later that day, I got a text from Kent, saying "Call Lynae.  She has some news she wants to share."  She had opened her call privately, but wanted Kent and me to be the first to know.  Since I was not with Kent at the time, she told us via phone separately.  Lynae has been called to serve in the Rochester, NY mission to include, along with her duties to share the gospel, service in the Hill Cumorah Visitor's Center!  She cried as she read her call, and prefaced the news to us by saying, "This is just the most PERFECT missionary call for me!  My cheeks hurt because I just can't stop smiling about it."  (Lynae LOVES the Book of Mormon.  It is the basis of her testimony.  She read the entire book before her baptism at age 8; and continues to read it often.  In 2012, she and I gave ourselves the "12 in 12"  challenge, and read the Book of Mormon each month during 2012....12 times that year. (See this post.) She is sooo excited to get to serve EXACTLY where that sacred record was deposited by Moroni and then retrieved by Joseph Smith and to tell that story and bear testimony of it over and over on a daily basis.) Lynae asked us not to tell yet because her BYU friends had talked her into a "mock re-opening ceremony" later that night, where they could all gather together to hear the news.  It was sooo hard to sit by my mom, father-in-law, and two brothers that evening during Trent's football game and say nothing!!  Later, when I saw things "surfacing" on facebook, I realized that the "re-opening" had taken place, and I texted Lynae for permission to "tell."  She said she would call her grandparents, and then the news was "free game,"  so I have been texting and telling the news nonstop since then.  Congratulations Lynae!




No wonder she couldn't wait.....I'd say she's just "a little bit excited" about getting her call!
(Note the gray metal "storage box" behind her.  This is where she picks up her mail.  It's the temporary Heritage Halls "Post Office" during the construction process.)






 
P.S.  Since Lynae received her call, someone told me, "You know it is rumored that they only send the prettiest missionaries to The Church's visitor's centers because these missionaries represent "the face of The Church" and they want visitor's to have a pleasant impression."  Now I don't know if this is true or not, but in Lynae's case, I choose to believe that it is :)  Additionally, her call affirms my suspicions that only those missionaries who are skilled bathroom cleaners, are called to serve in The Church's visitor's centers....(The Church's visitor's centers have the cleanest public restrooms I have ever seen, which explains why you never see elders serving in the visitor's centers, only sisters and couples. :)  But whatever the case, I'd say Lynae's call was definitely inspired:  She has a great love for and testimony of the Book of Mormon; she's pretty; and she's pro when it comes to cleaning bathrooms.  Congrats Lynae!  You will be an awesome missionary! 

Friday, October 10, 2014

Of Football and Silver Linings

We are full-swing in the middle of football season around here.  And I am choosing to enjoy the "silver linings." 

Silver Lining #1:   Luke broke his wrist. (I know, what type of a "silver lining" is THAT?!)....BUT, the break was not nearly as bad as it appeared. (His wrist looked pretty "deformed," and I was sure it would require surgery, pins, etc. etc.  Even the doctor was surprised with the x-ray results.)
And we were in St. George when it happened so we has a very short ride to the ER.  Luke chose a hot-pink cast (my favorite color); and the orthopedic doctor we were referred to, turned out to be great and covered by our insurance.
We think this was the play that broke Luke's wrist.  Note Luke in low for the tackle and the kid he is tackling, plus a 200+ pound lineman from Luke's own team, coming over the top of Luke and onto his wrist---Ouch!

Luke awaits a diagnosis.
We got the football jersey and shoulder pads off without cutting/ruining his jersey.
(Another "Silver Lining." :) 

Luke gets fitted with a temporary cast in the ER.

Football jersey and a fresh hot pink cast.  (The cast doesn't look that nice anymore :)

Silver Lining #2:  I missed getting a picture of Trent's awesome catch for a TD (a long-bomb, caught in the endzone)....BUT, Trent plays EVERY play (defense and offense and special teams) on the MVHS JV football team and is so much fun to watch; he has made some awesome tackles; and I have a "perfect picture in my mind" of his awesome catch.  (I ALMOST decided NOT to go to that game, since it was on a school night in Vegas, and I had to go alone....but I'm sooo glad I didn't miss his moment of glory!)

 I missed the pic of the TD catch by Trent, so this picture of his catch in a game last year will have to do. 

Trent, #29, gets instruction from Coach Larsen before heading into the game.

Silver Lining #3:  I attended the BYU verses Utah State game.  I am a BYU alum, and BYU lost, ending their winning streak.  Additionally BYU's quarterback broke his ankle, which will put him out for the season.....not fun.....BUT, I got to see my BYU "girlies" and sit by them during the game.  I got in "free" (One of Lynae's friends wasn't using her pass); I got a ride to Provo with my brother; and I really had a glorious weekend listening to conference and enjoying time with my girls.  Even though the actual game was a bit disappointing, the atmosphere did NOT disappoint.  I LOVED being in the "nosebleed" student section and being able to have a birdseye view of the whole stadium, watching the skydivers sail into the stadium trailing flames, being able to see the band "formations," and getting a "whole picture view" of "the wave" were just a few of the benefits of our seats in the air.  It was awesome!  I don't think I ever missed a BYU football game, from 1985-1989, but this is the first time I've been back to one since then.  Go Cougars!

Kay and Lynae before the game.  (And we didn't even PLAN the "twin attire"-note how we match even down to the brown boots.  Great minds think alike :)

Our birdseye view of the stadium-
Skydiver landing on the 50-yard line.

Selfie with the girls at the game

Thanks to Lynae's friend Zach who had a "Recruit Pass," we had these seats (3rd row, 50-yard line) for the last 18 seconds of the game.  Another "Silver Lining!" :)

Visiting the newly-remodeled Bean Museum at BYU with Grannie and cousins

Analise with cousins Ashlynn, Russell, and Scott, pose with the "Conservations Kids" at the Bean Museum. These "superheroes" gave us candy and reminded us to "take care of our planet."  (Maybe Lynae could get a job as a "Conservation Kid;" Afterall, her dorm is only a stone's-throw from the Bean Museum :)